Sex Lessons The HARD way or the EASY way? It's Your Choice   There are many roads to choose from, but they lead to different destinations.  When it comes to sex, there are a lot of dead ends. Maybe you know that already.   Life is about choices - good and bad. But life is also about new beginnings. What will it take to capture your dreams?   Everybody's Doing It   Giving or taking sex in the name of love is a deception . When "I love you" really means "I want you," the relationship is headed down a road that can leave you feeling cheap, rejected, and lonely.   Just out for a good time?  Reality still has a way of crowding out the pleasures of recreational sex. It's not the 60's anymore. The stats are in--free love ain't free.    Your body is connected to your heart and mind.  Each sexual experience can lead to greater and greater isolation, and cause you to live with fear. Fear of pregnancy. Fear of disease. Fear of never being loved. Fear of lonliness Fear of never finding a life-long love. Sex Makes Babies   Yea, yea, just get on contraceptives and you'll be fine. It's a great set up for making a profit on sexual health. Reality??? Your penis or vagina have a biological purpose-- reproduction. Pleasure, too. But trying to fool this biological system can make a fool of you. Biology is unrelenting. People can and do get pregnant, no matter what birth control is used. Of course using them is better than nothing if you want to avoid pregnancy, but...   With perfect usage in a lab setting: Condoms fail 14.2% of the time. The Pill fails 6.2% of the time. A diaphragm fails 15.6% of the time. Spermicides fail 26.3% of the time. The Road Less Traveled    The road to hope is all about you. You have goals and dreams and you want to protect each step, each decision. You accept the challenge. You are willing to invest in good habits, healthy actions that build your future and protect you and future unborn children.   You can decide to: forgive yourself for bad sexual and relational decisions. leave and/or not enter into sexual relationships. make new friends who share your choice. raise the standard of people you date. share your commitment with close friends. avoid settings that provoke sexual encounters. face the potential risks to health and future. exercise self-control. Our Sexual Integrity Program will help you realize your dreams.  Contact us at 208-892-WISH for a confidential consultation with a caring advocate.